Alcohol and drug abuse are symptoms of a deeper problem. They are simply ways to soothe and escape pain. At The Exclusive, we understand that emotional pain is the root cause of addiction. We know how to help you resolve your pain which, in turn, will end your substance abuse. When the deepest hurts are faced and a more effective way to deal with pain is learned, your desire to “numb out” with substances disappears.
Traditional 12 Step programs are often counterproductive and can actually feed the problem. For example, rewarding a person with a chip for a certain number of days of sobriety seems like a great idea until you realize that the main focus of attention becomes, “Don’t use, don’t use, don’t use!” It’s like saying, “Don’t think about an elephant!” You can’t help but think about it! Telling yourself, “Don’t use!” triggers a deeper fear of not making it to the next chip. It’s a form of self-torture that can easily lead to relapse. Simply attempting to stop a behavior does not cure the deeper suffering.
The 12 Step approach is well-intended and offers many ways to manage addiction issues, but mostly fails to address the emotional pain and core beliefs which led to the addiction in the first place. Ask yourself, “Am I at war with a substance and truly powerless?” Or “Am I carrying unresolved pain that longs to be healed?” The first belief leads to a focus on abstinence and managing addiction behavior, while the second helps expose the root cause of the addiction. To get beyond temporary abstinence, we must address the origin of the problem. You have a good reason to numb yourself. You are in pain. Let’s address this ― the heart of the issue.
To achieve the cure for addiction, it is essential to:
- Release previous traumas and unresolved issues, developing a new relationship with the deepest-held beliefs about one’s life
- Address severe chemical imbalances created by drugs and alcohol
- Master the skills to defeat addiction triggers and to make life affirming decisions moment after moment, day after day and year after year
At The Exclusive, together we address and resolve your core issues, your pain and end your substance abuse. It’s time to get real relief. We’re here for you. Give us a call at 808-775-0200.
The Safe Environment You Need To Succeed
When a friend judges you, you understandably become less open with that person in order to protect yourself. To heal unresolved wounds, we need to be cared for, not judged. At The Exclusive, we truly understand that everyone is doing the best they know how according to what they currently understand. We help you see yourself accurately by eliminating the blinders of shame and destructive judgments. Shame feeds addictive behaviors. Acceptance and love release the shame.
It is crucial to be with practitioners who embody a non-judgmental attitude. Our staff truly honors who you are as a precious and deserving being. It’s time to release the judgments you carry, accumulated over a life-time. In our small family style environment, you will experience being valued for your true essence.
A Program You Can Trust
Feeling apprehensive about attending a rehab program is understandable. Many programs are highly controlling, restrictive and even intimidating. In contrast, our supportive and nurturing program helps you establish trust so you can find the answers that are already within you. We provide the skills and care you need to heal. Being in our compassionate environment of self-discovery and empowerment is both exhilarating and brings deep relief. At The Exclusive, learning where you are out of balance and awakening to the true nature of your issues is an enriching experience.
Our innovative treatment program gives you a clear road map to end alcohol and drug addiction. We recognize your uniqueness and design a customized program around your specific needs. Our team of professionals work together to create the most effective treatment plan while making ongoing adjustments to accelerate your recovery. With our one-on-one, in-depth, personalized therapy sessions you will gain skills to overcome addiction.
Buses to nightly 12 Step meetings? Not here!
At The Exclusive you’re actively involved in your inspiring, healing, customized program all day and all evening. You move your emotions, you move your mind, and you move your body. You are engaged in YOUR life and doing what it takes to recreate it the way you really want to live.
Our amazing staff is here as your support team 24/7. Your time is highly structured with an empowering variety of sessions for exploring and taking action on making a new and beautiful life of sustainable health and joyful relationships. We help you rediscover the sensation of being you ― at your best.
Don’t wait any longer. It’s time to take your life back. Call us at 808-775-0200. We know how to help you.
